Pros and Cons

My bother always make a list whenever he has to decide some major options in life  ~ Pros on one side and cons on the other .  If there is an imbalance  ,  he always knows which option to pick .

I wonder if lists work in relationships and in luv .  So I asked my frds n colleagues  ~  to my surprise almost everyone has a list !!! My frd Priscilla has a list of  “ qualities for potential boylfrds ”  ~  1.  Asian  2. Well educated with professional job and 6 figures annual income  3. Great sense of humor  4.  athletic  5. with his own property  6. Good looking with great body like those cover boys in GQ magazine and blah blah blah blah blah ......

I could not help but wonder how many guys actually fulfilled all those requirements !!!!!!  Is that why so many ppl stay single these days for we can hardly find someone ever ticks all the boxes in our lists .

My buddy Joseph was unsure about this new gal he had started seeing . It had been 3 months and it's about time to decide whether this gal would stay and turn into a more serious relationship or whether she would be voted off the island .  So he made a " should she stay or should she go " list  ~  positive and negative things about the gal . But the problem was the gal found his list and Joseph was asked to please explain .  lol

Literally  ,  list of pros n cons makes me wonder if relationships and luv become a mathematical equation  ~  add one column  ,   subtract or tick 9/10 boxes  ~  will that really make us live happily ever after ????!!!