Alone doesn't necessarily mean lonely
My frd Christine surprised me when she handed me her wedding invitation yesterday morning. She told me she actually " begged " the guy she only knew him for three weeks , to marry her !!!!!
It was then when I realized ppl are tooooo afraid of being alone !!
Society has led us to believe that being alone = lonely . The thot of going to the movies or eating at a restaurant alone is almost unthinkable . We feel like everyone's looking , judging us and feeling sorry for having no one .
Honestly , I hardly have such fear but I do know some ppl , even temporary isolation like waking up alone in the middle of the nite scares them . They would frantically search for the remote control and turn on the tv ~ even there's actually nothing good to watch . They feel safe just hearing the sounds . They are too afraid to be left alone with themselves !
To me , those times when I wake up in the middle of the nite are the moments of self-exploration and soul searching . So I'm not afraid of being alone or of having no one ~ after all , the best relationship we can have is the one with ourselves !