hypocrite
I‘ve been igoring my frd Yu for weeks coz I'm disgusted by her affair with our mutual frd's husband Poon !!!!! ... This really makes me sickening.
I had a heated discussion with her about this indecent relationship . I told her how disappointed I'm with her coz she might ruin (or already did!!!) our frd's family and their 6 years frdship . Honestly she's the last person I would expect to do such a thing.
But she insisted Poon doesn't love his wife anymore ， he stays in that invalid marriage only for the sake of his children . I dunno if I’m buying that story and even it's a " sound excuse " doesn’t make the affair acceptable ~ you don't betray your frd like that !!! Guess she's totally blinded by her own pleasure ~ She said she doesn’t care what ppl are saying and she's jealous of ppl around her who are happily married ~ and most importantly ，she is tired of being alone !
When I regained my senses after that spat ， I thot to myself ， “ Who am I to judge her ~ I had my share of an affair with a married man as well ! ” . The only difference was I didn’t know he's married all along . But even I was so emotionally invested when I found out the pain fact ， I didn’t allow myself to be blinded ~ I broke it off right away without a second thot ~ even when I wasn’t ready to lose him .
“ Let he who's w/o sin cast the first stone ” ~ the bible said.
I've judged Yu . I tried to remove the tiny speck in her eye so she can see clearly when all the time I have a plank in mine ~ what a hypocrite I am !
I had a heated discussion with her about this indecent relationship . I told her how disappointed I'm with her coz she might ruin (or already did!!!) our frd's family and their 6 years frdship . Honestly she's the last person I would expect to do such a thing.
But she insisted Poon doesn't love his wife anymore ， he stays in that invalid marriage only for the sake of his children . I dunno if I’m buying that story and even it's a " sound excuse " doesn’t make the affair acceptable ~ you don't betray your frd like that !!! Guess she's totally blinded by her own pleasure ~ She said she doesn’t care what ppl are saying and she's jealous of ppl around her who are happily married ~ and most importantly ，she is tired of being alone !
When I regained my senses after that spat ， I thot to myself ， “ Who am I to judge her ~ I had my share of an affair with a married man as well ! ” . The only difference was I didn’t know he's married all along . But even I was so emotionally invested when I found out the pain fact ， I didn’t allow myself to be blinded ~ I broke it off right away without a second thot ~ even when I wasn’t ready to lose him .
“ Let he who's w/o sin cast the first stone ” ~ the bible said.
I've judged Yu . I tried to remove the tiny speck in her eye so she can see clearly when all the time I have a plank in mine ~ what a hypocrite I am !