Second round ?




Last Friday I bumped into my ex accidentally.  We were happy to see each other again but  unable to chat much for we both had something else to do  ~  Then I received a call from him the very next day  ~   He said he still have feeling for me and miss me a lot ..... he's wondering if we should have broken up for no obvious reason. 
Sure , with any break up there is the chance of getting back together  ~   but would things change? 
 A few couples I know broke up for a period of time and then back together. It was the break up that saved their relationship in the long run .  But we broke up becoz we did not think there was any future for us together . Basically we had a look at our relationship and realized he was going left and I was going right . Why should we get back together ?  ~  Just simply becoz we miss each other ??????!!!!!!
Sometimes , it's tempting to get back with your ex  ~  but is it a good idea ?  Is it a relationship worth fighting for ?  Or should you just let the other person go and save having more heartbreak and tears ?
When thinking of getting back with ex  , I think we should ask if  we're doing this only becoz we can't have him / her  ~  so often  ppl always seem to want what they can't have ~  we  like what is outside of our reach  ~  whether it's good for us or not .  Also , how do we ensure that the issues that led to a break up don't cause problems again ?  And  we should  figure out if the problems in the relationship actually have a solution .  Can we work things out ?
Working thru all those issues will take time and effort ~  is he / she worth it ?