Second round ?
Last Friday I bumped into my ex accidentally. We were happy to see each other again but unable to chat much for we both had something else to do ~ Then I received a call from him the very next day ~ He said he still have feeling for me and miss me a lot ..... he's wondering if we should have broken up for no obvious reason.
Sure , with any break up there is the chance of getting back together ~ but would things change?
A few couples I know broke up for a period of time and then back together. It was the break up that saved their relationship in the long run . But we broke up becoz we did not think there was any future for us together . Basically we had a look at our relationship and realized he was going left and I was going right . Why should we get back together ? ~ Just simply becoz we miss each other ??????!!!!!!
Sometimes , it's tempting to get back with your ex ~ but is it a good idea ? Is it a relationship worth fighting for ? Or should you just let the other person go and save having more heartbreak and tears ?
When thinking of getting back with ex , I think we should ask if we're doing this only becoz we can't have him / her ~ so often , ppl always seem to want what they can't have ~ we like what is outside of our reach ~ whether it's good for us or not . Also , how do we ensure that the issues that led to a break up don't cause problems again ? And we should figure out if the problems in the relationship actually have a solution . Can we work things out ?
Working thru all those issues will take time and effort ~ is he / she worth it ?