shield
As we get older, we become less naive about the things in life, including in our love life. Experiences from the past dun necessarily make us stronger, but they do create a shell that protect us against the others. Like , if you had extremely terrible relationships in the past and all those experiences just left your heart badly broken , then you would become more cautious about the partner you choose in the future. Or you would simply lock the access to your heart to every person that comes in your life.
Ask the ppl around you if they are more cautious now in their love life than when they were younger, bet most of them would say yes. Like me, I was very naive when I was young, I believed everything ppl told me. But now, I have changed a lot ~ becoz of those heart broken experiences from the past ,I find it hard to trust and have learned to play on the safe side.
Our past experience helps us a lot not to make the same mistake twice coz it creates a defensive mechanism. But the medal can have its reverse too ~ If you are constantly on the defensiveness when the opposite sex dares to talk to you, you will have trouble finding a new companion. So be sure to know when to release the brake.
Ask the ppl around you if they are more cautious now in their love life than when they were younger, bet most of them would say yes. Like me, I was very naive when I was young, I believed everything ppl told me. But now, I have changed a lot ~ becoz of those heart broken experiences from the past ,I find it hard to trust and have learned to play on the safe side.
Our past experience helps us a lot not to make the same mistake twice coz it creates a defensive mechanism. But the medal can have its reverse too ~ If you are constantly on the defensiveness when the opposite sex dares to talk to you, you will have trouble finding a new companion. So be sure to know when to release the brake.