Real thing or nothing

A friend of mine told me she has developed a special feeling for one of her frd ,  but is too afraid to gamble with her heart . She wants a relationship but is fear of putting her feelings out there .  Literally ，she's exactly like me  ~  FEAR about almost everything  !!!

We all know love is a risky business ，it involves all kind of possibility . I 'm not one to encourage risk ,  the thought of bankruptcy scare me especially when knowing there's so much fake love out there .

Yup ，Seems like people fake everything nowadays  ~   fake hair colours  ，fake teeth ， fake tans ， fake money ， fake LV  ， fake refugees ，fake orgasms ，even fake love and relationship . 

Like my frd H has been together with a guy for 2 years simply out of fear of being alone . Her love to him is fake . I have no idea how she's able to  fake the whole thing all along . 

We all have our own value ，I do not want to be in a relationship for the wrong reasons  ~  the fear of being alone is definitely one of them . I needed to work out my issues before jumping on the relationship bandwagon .

Why fake it ? Are we afraid of the real thing ? Or is it that faking is easier than dealing with the reality of our own issues ? Are we too lazy to have real relationships ?

A fake relationship is like a fake handbag . It is not going to last like the real thing . Faking and pretending will only work in the short term . Maybe the key to a long term relationship is to stop faking and start dealing with your own issues . 

Personally ,   I've never had a thot to have fake hair color ， fake teeth or fake boos ，so why settle for a fake relationship ?

Yup ,  for me ....  I want the real thing or nothing at all .