juggling
My frd Rose thinks that dating is very much like the stock market ~ You should never put all your eggs in one basket otherwise the risks involved are enormous ~ if anything goes wrong you'll be left with nothing !!! She is a firm believer that you should date a few guys @ the same time in order to secure your future and minimize the risk ~ just in the case of unforeseen circumstances where one investment lets you down there are always other safety nets to fall back on , so that you'll never be left with a feeling of total ruin .
I wondered if her rule of diversification is right ~ Should we focus on one date @ a time or juggle ?
No doubt , Rose is a true juggler to me ~ On average , she is juggling anywhere from 3-5 dates !!!!! She told me she always takes chance to meet new ppl . She made the whole juggling thing easy!!!
I could never juggle even when I had such chances when I was younger. I honestly don't have those time , energy and skill to have a deep emotional connection with more than one guy . Yup , I 'm just another one of those dumb ppl who only invest with passion n faith in one option , forgetting the risks but believing in my dreams . True , I might crash and burn badly when things go wrong , but ironically , despite life's lessons , there are certain matters of life that I'm still unable to follow the principles of the stock market . It doesn't matter if the risks are devastatingly ominous or the aftermath could leave me paralyzed , I still think it's worth investing all my energy into someone or something which I believe is my future ~ for doing so , I know I've lived my life fully and true to my conscience that in the end , is what matters to me ... yet I haven't put any eggs in any baskets . For now , I'm just watching all the juggling on the sidelines