juggling


My frd Rose thinks that dating is very much like the stock market ~  You should never put all your eggs in one basket otherwise the risks involved are enormous  ~  if anything goes wrong you'll be left with nothing !!!  She is a firm believer that you should date a few guys @ the same time in order to secure your future and minimize the risk  ~  just in the case of unforeseen circumstances where one investment lets you down there are always other safety nets to fall back on  ,  so that you'll never be left with a feeling of total ruin .
 I wondered if  her rule of  diversification is right  ~  Should we focus on one date @ a time or juggle ?
No doubt  ,  Rose is a true juggler to me  ~   On average  ,   she is juggling anywhere from 3-5 dates !!!!!  She told me she always takes chance to meet new ppl . She made the whole juggling thing easy!!!
 I could never juggle even when I had such chances when I was younger. I honestly don't have those time  ,  energy and skill to have a deep emotional connection with more than one guy .  Yup  I 'm just another one of those dumb ppl who only invest with passion n faith in one option  ,  forgetting the risks but believing in my dreams . True , I might crash and burn badly when things go wrong  , but ironically ,  despite life's lessons  ,  there are certain matters of life that I'm still unable to follow the principles of the stock market . It doesn't matter if the risks are devastatingly ominous or the aftermath could leave me paralyzed  ,  I still think it's worth investing all my energy into someone or something which I believe is my future  ~  for doing so  ,  I know I've lived my life fully and true to my conscience that in the end  ,   is what matters to me ...  yet I haven't put any eggs in any baskets .  For now ,  I'm just watching all the juggling on the sidelines