" Class-mate "

Some people are really snobby  , when they first meet you they are 

great as nutella on toast   ~   all melted and soft  .  Then they ask 

you what you do and if you respond with the big red glow in the dark word like janitor / factory worker /  kitchen help ....  Shock 

horror run for the hills  ~  Their once friendly faces grow vague ,  

their body language changes to cold within seconds !

True character shows when one gives another a socially diminutive job title  ~   Those who don’t even blink or give you " that look " when one utter the word janitor / factory worker / kitchen help , will see beyond any social status you give them and at least see a part of who you are not what you are  .  Those are the people have depth that reaches further than the up turned noses of the others .  

I've seen people lying about their occupation just to make more friends  ~ but would these be genuine friendships?  

I think I’ve now reached a stage in my life where I don’t care if ppl judge me  ~   yet I do care what type of ppl I associate with  ~  those who first meet me I'm never who I seem or come across ,  I keep cards close to my chest and only unveil certain information as time progresses and I have had time to see the type of person you are . 

This isn't a trust issue ,  a personality fault or manipulative , instead it's more about who I want in my life and who I just don’t have time for anymore .