Hard To Say I'm Sorry

   

 I’ve learned thru experience that  relationships are hard work !!!!   

 And why is it that most of the time the ppl that we hurt are the ones we love ? !  It  doesn’t  make  much  sense ，does it ?

    If we truly love someone ， do  we  want  them  to  get  hurt ?  Of course ，naturally  ，the answer would be a big " NO "  .  Yet most of the time ， it’s the ppl we love that we hurt the most  ，tho unintentionally .

There are ppl who really find it hard to admit they’re wrong and ask forgiveness ， yet for some saying sorry is easy .

Personally ， I  think if you care / love someone enough  ， you don’t even have to be wrong to say sorry  ~  Yup ，no matter whose fault it is  ， just the simple fact that your loved one was hurt by something you did or said ， should be enough to get you to say sorry  ~  sorry coz  he's / she's hurt ， sorry coz you care about his / her feelings .

Saying  sorry is  a  humbling act  ， it doesn’t make you less of a person . 
Pride is one of the most destructive things in a relationship . Wanting to be the one who’s right all the time ， not admitting when wrong ，refusing to take into consideration the feelings of others ... yup ， pride can easily destroy a  relationship if we’re not careful .

Sure ，it may be hard at times to say sorry ， but it’s always worth it  .  It can save a relationships and may even strengthen the connections .
Saying sorry doesn’t always have to be  ， “ I admit I was wrong . ”  It can also be ，  “ I don’t care who’s right ，all I care about is YOU !!!! ”

A simple sorry can ease someone’s pain ，and being able to say  " I'm sorry ! "  is a true test of strength and love .