L- I - V - E

My sister passed me a bad news yesterday morning  ~  one of  our distant relatives  ,  Anthony  ,  just  passed away from a rare 

disease.

I was not very close to Anthony but his  death really shocked me  .  I guess it 's becoz he's so young (33 only !!) and so full of life .  He had all these plans about his future  ~  career , marriage , children  ,  growing old ...  I 'm sad that he did not get to live those plans . 

Maybe it 's more tragic when ppl die young and single  ~  It seems wrong  ~   it's like an unfinished business which against the natural laws of life .

In fact , the unexpected death of Anthony had taught me a hard lesson  ~ control is an element that we often fool ourselves we have ! While we do have the power to make many decisions  ,  so much of life is beyond our control !

Really ,  life is so unpredictable and how would we prepare for what we can't actually predict ?

Perhaps we should plan less for the future and  juz simply L-I-V-E !!