You are responsible for your own drama

Recently ， I've received quite a few emails which are full of grumbles from some of my high-schoolmates whom I  barely contact with .

Like most ppl in our society ，they like to stay connected thru posting ，commenting ，sharing and gathering  ...  But they said they're kind of weary lately and there're days that they could not even bring themselves to the internet .

I got what they meant .

Yup ，I've seen countless of people crumble under the weight of  personal gossips and the political war with the steady rhetoric  .  The amount of unfriending and blocking feels like bombs going off . Their private messages have exploded . There's scandalous ，unmeasured ，hurtful meme's being shuttled ，shared and exploited  .  Objectification seems justified  :  She / he is  vivid  ，energetic and outgoing versus She / he is sluttish / lascivious  ....    No one  ~  yes ，NO ONE  ~  is any better when you resort to shaming to make your point .

As a sensitive person ，I realize long ago that I should constantly remind myself to take care of my psyche as well as my spiritual wholeness . But I aware that social media often screw this up regularly   ~   yup， being vertical always hurts in that particular world  ....  yet I see no reason for chastise myself for being horizontal . Thank goodness ，I'm not addicted to  any of the on-line or off-line social ，so I can easily walk away from these creepy places where MINES are hidden everywhere . 

Yup ，I have to protect myself against a steady onslaught of verbal artillery between "friends" and take care of my internal well being . There's absolutely  no reason to join the force or stay under a crumbling wall .

Everyone is responsible for their own decisions ，you can't keep blaming someone else when it's your choice to stay in a battlefield !!!