Vow
" I _________ , take you _________ , to be my wife / husband , to have and to hold from this day forward , for better or for worse , for richer , for poorer , in sickness and in health , to love and to cherish , from this day forward til death do us part ! "
So did you really mean it when you said it ? Are you still keeping ur promise ?
I can't help but wonder ~ is monogamy possible in the 21th century ?
For my part , I simply observe that ppl have difficulty with monogamy in today's society .
When ppl get married they make a promise to be faithful to each other ~ Monogamy is instantly assumed as part of the deal . Unfortunately we all have to face the reality and day-to-day chores . Excitement is not a permanent state . Routine and familiarity is boring ... Marital bliss wanes ~ no matter how strongly they feel for each other in the beginning of their union !
Yup , sadly , a vow can NEVER immune from affairs !!
