The First Cut Is The Deepest
Do you still remember what it's like with your first love or your first heartbreak ? ~ You fell in love with that special someone and all of a sudden , You realize you're no longer a child ~ you’ve grown into a man / woman . You were happier than you’ve ever been in your life ....... But then one day , it’s all over ............ The love that person feels for you is no longer there , and you’re left feeling rejected and empty ............... Ppl around you kept telling you that it’s gonna be okay ~ like having a flu shot , it hurts only in the beginning then it will only get better from that point .
When I first had my heart broken , I felt like the whole world was crashing in on me . I didn’t know how to deal with that new and overwhelming emotion . It was painful . No matter how many words of encouragement ppl gave me , and even tho I knew they’re right , but it still wasn’t easy to shake off the distress of losing someone that has been part of my life ........ But slowly , I've learnt to pick up the pieces and start my life over again . And I had finally realized the fact that like everything else in life ~ love changes.
Some ppl say the first broken heart is more painful and takes a longer time to heal becoz it’s ur first ever taste of a love lost . They say that the second time , third time , or the umpteenth time wouldn’t be as hard coz you already have the experience . But I think it all depends on the depth of the relationship ~ The more in love you're with the person , the pain of the loss will be greater . So no matter how many times you’ve had your heart broken , regardless of the level and intensity of the pain , it still hurts like hell ~ unless you have a heart of stone .
True , it's painful but life goes on ~ with or without that person . We have to push past that and learn to move on . It’s not going to be easy , but we have to do it .
A heart broken experience not necessarily make one stronger but certainly more mature !!!!