monophobia
Many ppl have the fear being alone / single . They always need other ppl to keep them company . Maybe that's why Adam had Eve ; Mickey has Minnie ... Even Barbie has Ken !!!
When asked in a recent poll what they feared the most ， many ppl answered “ being alone ” . In fact ， Some ppl actually have extreme anxiety about being alone that they end up having mono-phobia .
Yesterday I had a chat with my frd HY . We discussed many things including her fear of being alone . Tho she doesn't suffer from monophobia ， her fear of being alone does cause a certain level of anxiety and depression . She feels alone in Canada ， without her security blanket she always has that sense of insecurity . And I think that is the reason why she misses so much being in a relationship ， especially in the holiday season when everyone around her is partnering up . I do understand her feeling ， it's very much like playing a game of musical chairs ~ when the music stop ， you're the only one without a chair ... which makes you feel like a loser !
But sometimes I think the cure for any type of anxiety is to put yourself in the situation you fear and work thru it . So if you fear planes ， you should fly more regularly. If you fear being alone ， you should learn to be happy and survive on your own ~ Yup ， a mate / marriage doesn't guarantee you will get rid of the loneliness or have quality time with one another ... sometimes it's just being lonely ~ together !!!!
Yesterday I had a chat with my frd HY . We discussed many things including her fear of being alone . Tho she doesn't suffer from monophobia ， her fear of being alone does cause a certain level of anxiety and depression . She feels alone in Canada ， without her security blanket she always has that sense of insecurity . And I think that is the reason why she misses so much being in a relationship ， especially in the holiday season when everyone around her is partnering up . I do understand her feeling ， it's very much like playing a game of musical chairs ~ when the music stop ， you're the only one without a chair ... which makes you feel like a loser !
But sometimes I think the cure for any type of anxiety is to put yourself in the situation you fear and work thru it . So if you fear planes ， you should fly more regularly. If you fear being alone ， you should learn to be happy and survive on your own ~ Yup ， a mate / marriage doesn't guarantee you will get rid of the loneliness or have quality time with one another ... sometimes it's just being lonely ~ together !!!!
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