First date
As we reach a certain stage of our life ， many people start to feel first dates turn into a chore rather than a fun experience ~ Don't we all wish that we can bypass the anxiety of making a first good impression to determine whether or not we are compatible with someone ? ~ Well ， @ least I do !!!!
In the world of "the individual" ， it has become almost mandatory to sell urself and ur capabilities to ppl around the world . This is no longer the era of community ， country，or company . This is the era of me ， myself ， and I . You have plenty of fish pages ，Facebook ，Instagram ， LinkedIn ， youtube ，and the like ~ These are all venues in which all the power is given to the individual . You can basically sell urself on-line in any of these forms and reap great rewards based solely on ur ability to market urself well ~ Like ， if you try online dating ， you have to find the right words to describe how awesome you are . If you are going out to a dinner party where you are likely to meet new ppl ， you must dress to impress ，act relaxed ，and appear comfortable enough in ur own skin that ppl will not feel threatened to approach you ~ It's all about marketing ，isn't it ?!
In all ur efforts to come across as a great catch ， is it ur great personality that will entice them to ask you out on a second date ? Is it ur drop dead gorgeous looks that makes heads turn ? Who knows ?! It all boils down to those first few minutes of interaction ，coz all that matters is chemistry .
And what exactly is chemistry ? I think it is something that is determined in the first few seconds you talk to someone . It is an instant attraction or instant turn-off . And it takes juz that long to figure out ~ an instant ，a brief moment . I really believe that there is some great force within each of us that is either drawn or repelled to someone on first glance . It is a combination of everything you have determined to be desirable in ur life .
A great education from an Ivy league school with David Beckham sexy good looks is not enough to get every gal swooning . Me for instance ，I prefer the more dorky， artistic types . I think I tend to appreciate guys that are a little more laid back and relaxed in their appearance . I juz think that the " checklist perfect ， high maintenance " guy is not for me . I'm attracted to guy with quirks ~ something that is uniquely him ~ guess that's something you would "know" when you meet someone .
Although it's hard to explain chemistry and so often we have already decided in those first few minutes ， whether or not this person is worthy of a second date . It is only thru the second phase of the first date ， whereby you engage in open discussion ，that you determine whether or not ur chemical attraction to this person is worthy of further exploration . @ this point ， ur feelings will either get stronger with time or they will naturally begin to disappear ....
In all ur efforts to come across as a great catch ， is it ur great personality that will entice them to ask you out on a second date ? Is it ur drop dead gorgeous looks that makes heads turn ? Who knows ?! It all boils down to those first few minutes of interaction ，coz all that matters is chemistry .
And what exactly is chemistry ? I think it is something that is determined in the first few seconds you talk to someone . It is an instant attraction or instant turn-off . And it takes juz that long to figure out ~ an instant ，a brief moment . I really believe that there is some great force within each of us that is either drawn or repelled to someone on first glance . It is a combination of everything you have determined to be desirable in ur life .
A great education from an Ivy league school with David Beckham sexy good looks is not enough to get every gal swooning . Me for instance ，I prefer the more dorky， artistic types . I think I tend to appreciate guys that are a little more laid back and relaxed in their appearance . I juz think that the " checklist perfect ， high maintenance " guy is not for me . I'm attracted to guy with quirks ~ something that is uniquely him ~ guess that's something you would "know" when you meet someone .
Although it's hard to explain chemistry and so often we have already decided in those first few minutes ， whether or not this person is worthy of a second date . It is only thru the second phase of the first date ， whereby you engage in open discussion ，that you determine whether or not ur chemical attraction to this person is worthy of further exploration . @ this point ， ur feelings will either get stronger with time or they will naturally begin to disappear ....